Do you vent to your friends?

Never my relationship but yes I vent about other things. Like the cost of living. Frustrations at work. Something one of my idiot kids did that week 😂

Yes I have a few friends whom I can vent too lol. I love my venting buddies especially when our Husbands and families are similar, so everything is so relatable! Bt I just wish I had friends whom I share similar interests & hobbies with! Thats my current problem!

Nope it’s between me and the person I’m in a relationship with. The one time I did discuss DV the ‘friend’ used it as pillow talk to our mutual friend

@T.🤍 I’m so sorry u experience DV and then u also had go thru that betrayal X Idk what it is I think maybe it’s the Scorpio in me bt I don’t trust a single soul lol so I never go deep with my venting buddies it’s usually very surface level stuff, everyday shit like “omg I’m so fucking tired today cuz my Husband was snoring all night” and then we go into venting abt that lol bt im not actually “venting” abt anything rather complaining. Anyways my husband is my bestfriend so he is my number 1 venting buddy and his the one I go deep with & we do pillow talk & overshare shit & we do have mutual friends; I feel bad that knowing the type of damage it can do to someone who came to trust me. Anyways ur comment made me self reflect, I realized I need to do better. Some of my friends do vent to me abt deep shit, and so I have to stop telling my Husband

Mental health is important. If you need to offload, having a few trusted friends or a therapist can help. Just don't vent in ways that others will start feeling negatively about the others you care for

Yes about work and general annoyances, never about my relationship.

@Jasmin honestly don’t feel bad for venting to your husband or telling him things as that’s what your life partner is for. I think the male friend who got told by the girl I told was telling me out of concern as he did it out of earshot of others and maybe a warning to not tell her anything else. He had no loyalties to her as they were just sleeping together. But thank you 🤍

I used to, but unfortunately, I don't feel comfortable doing it anymore & don't feel like I can trust some of my friends with certain subjects.

I never vent about my husband. And if my child were going through something personal, I wouldn't share that either (I'm not talking about venting about teething or things like that, I mean later down the road when my children are old enough to share certain struggles with me). But basically anything else, yes, I'll vent to my friends and they also vent to me.

I try not to vent about my husband as I don't want family and friends to have a negative view on him. Especially as he is pretty good and most of my moaning would be "could do more housework".