How to not feel like you are being bad ?
My bd not been around and come and see his daughter one in a while. He thinks I should call him or message him to ask him come and see his daughter or ask him what she needs . Is that’s how it should be ? I am on my own and trying to get over this as he is nice when he only wants something otherwise he been putting me down and had social services involved as he use to threaten me and hit for no reason like I apparently make him to hurt me even when I was pregnant, I still feel like failure and now being alone with my baby but then I am at least safe with children, how you find to forget or forgive and live life please 🙏
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Just to add he lives like down the road from us not even far and still not have time to see his daughter, I been providing for her since I was pregnant clothes baby basket cot changing table and other essentials, he not bothered for me about being pregnant what I would need or anything he left all to me but same time call himself a best man 😕
Thank you Deb 🥰❤️
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He should contact you regarding your daughter. It's not down to you to remind him to check in. If I was you I'd only tell him if she needed something if he asked as now your on your own it'll be easier to just provide for her. Time will make it easier to forgive and forget. Keep strong, your doing amazingly x