Help anyone? Just listen and share opinions pls❤️‍🩹😭

Okay so this morning I was holding my baby upward with one hand ( she’s 4months ) and I don’t really know How to explain cause English is not really My first language but one arm was around her butt and she usually has a pretty good balance. But long story short.. I was holding her and grabbing something with the other hand.. I don’t know if it was a water bottle or what cause it’s all a blur.. that’s how traumatic this was. But so I was holding her and she leaned backwards and I heard her back crack! I freaked out and grabbed her real quick and she was crying! I don’t know if it was due to me freaking out or if she actually did get hurt but I was freaking out soooooo so bad it felt like she was gonna die or get seriously hurt for a second I don’t know how to explain this horrible feeling. I cried so much and she calmed down not long after and seems fine now but this will haunt me forever. I feel like a bad mom and I usually always do. I feel guilty for even showering sometimes and this incident today has been driving me insane. I can’t stop thinking about it. This was the worst day ever. I don’t know why I’m posting this.. just venting, but the mom guilt has been eating me alive for the longest time and today it’s at its worse. Hope my baby girl is okay, thank god for saving her. And what really haunts me is.. what if something worse happened?

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Momma it was a accident stuff like that will happen over time and it’s okay the guilt definitely will get you bad it’s a mom thing but if you feel like something is wrong take her to the hospital and get her checked long as she didn’t go to sleep for atleast 2 hours after she is fine momma just remember accidents will happen if you need to talk I’m here I’ll give you my number ❤️

My three year old jumped on my three week old baby when I put him in the bed and turned my back for literally five seconds to get clothes for the kids to wear to school. I, like you, freaked out started crying felt so guilty. The baby was crying it was awful. But the baby was completely fine, it was an accident, and I realized I had to give myself grace. Accidents will happen but it sounds like your baby is perfectly fine now you may have scared her more than anything ❤️

I heard my baby’s leg crack and I fricked out about hip displasia because I maybe held him wrong. I hold him with 1 arm holding his leg and forearm under his arm (he is 4 month). I felt so guilty I cried. then I came across a medical research that shows that babies often make cracking sounds due to developing joints and air bubbles forming there. So maybe your baby just made a random cracking sound as well and then copied your reaction and cried. Don’t feel guilty, you are the best mama for her!

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