Suddenly put off by intimacy
I wanted to post on here in case anyone else was experiencing this as it's quite new to me and a bit concerning.
We have a 20month old boy with my husband and my husband is lovely as always but recently started to be all overly touchy feely.
Coming for passionate kisses, grabbing my bum and giving sexy compliments all the time and being all helpful, wants to have sex a lot more than usual.
It's really putting me off him which is strange and concerning. I don't know why he is all so horny all of a sudden and I'm really not into it. Im really not into all the touching and wondering if it might be to do with my toddler still being breastfed as he is constantly playing with my breast as he feeds on the other.
Has anyone had a phase where they have gone off their partners intimacy? I really hope it's a temporary thing .. never had this before.
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No hun its so common i think after having a child my boy was bottle fed my partner is exactly like your husband and im not a touchy feely person so actually irritates me more then anything lol think its just a process but also i just dont care for sex anymore which sounds awful but 9pm hits i just want to sleep i put that before sex now so i feel energetic the next day for my active boy lol i think were all in it together hun your not alone xxx
Thank you for your responses, good to know it happens to others too. At the moment I'd be happy to not have sex for 5 years haha
You are not alone!! Deffo feel the same xx
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YES TOTALLY! My little girl is also breastfed still and we co sleep. I definitely have times when I’m really touched out, but it does pass for me. Some months we’re intimate once a week or more, other times it’s once a month and that’s a push! It has felt concerning to me too, but I think it’s a common thing, just probably not something everyone talks about!