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Yeah toys aren’t going to do shit. He needs to get over it. My hubby and I used a vibrator throughout my pregnancy and we have a perfectly healthy and bright 9 month old.
Why is the option cheat if you are on about sex toys??
@Scarlett because the sex toys don’t do a thing did you read what was posted
The fact that you are married AND pregnant and there’s an option for cheat is crazy 🤣🤣🤣 I’m guessing that’s a joke option just for banter?!
If you are actually debating cheating, I feel sorry for your husband, not your sex drive.
I would have a conversation with him about it. There are lots of other things you can do besides penetration that can help if that's too scary. My husband was the same throughout pregnancy because it was very uncomfortable, so we had to find other ways which actually makes it more fun
The fact that your husband is concerned about the welfare of your baby and you’re even entertaining the idea of cheating on him makes me feel sad for the poor guy. I think you need to be a little bit more mature about the situation and talk to him or just “please” yourself for now
What is he scared of? Having sex or you using sex toys? I personally wouldn't use sex toys when I was pregnant. I knew someone who used them and got an infection from it. Can't remember how she treated it but I would worry about an infection causing serious issues
He does know his penis goes in your vaginal canal and the baby is tucked away in your uterus right 😂😂 men can be such babies. I get concern but you don’t need to change your sex up unless advise by a dr to chill out more. Definitely don’t cheat that’s just stupid. Be open, have him at your next apt and if your comfortable bring the concern from him up with your dr maybe heating from them it will help him move past it
@Hannah this! Exactly. Who the fuck thinks about cheating in this situation!
I mean it was quite difficult to make sense of tbh. But if you are seriously considering cheating on your husband whilst pregnant. Then that’s gross
Maybe use your mouth and COMMUNICATE, men are not mind readers. The fact that cheat is even and option is crazy, and i feel bad for your husband and future child.
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@Scarlett commas are very important😂
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Your options are to communicate with him, deal with it, or leave. Cheating isn't ever an option 🤷♀️ but I think communicating your need and maybe even showing him some research on why it's safe is a good first step.
Guys relax the cheat option was there for banter i would never cheat on my husband Jesus i thought ya could take a joke
@Aurélie girl relax it was a joke
Why is chest an option? Why would toys be of any risk?
Please take him to your next OB appointment and ask the obvious questions about “is sex safe? Can we use toys? Ect?” So he can hear it from the professional. Because it’s probably the only way he’ll relent
@Tiffany please see where i said that was for banter 😒
He just needs education that sex can still continue. He probably thinks his dick is poking the baby, head or something
@Samantha read the COMMENT i put that there for banter not gonna happen it was a joke for Christ sake ya take ish to serious
Sounds like husband needs to grow up and read a book ffs! Like sex is going to harm your baby🙄🤣