He definitely needs a dinner. 3:30 is far too early for a last meal of the day. Imagine if you went to bed at 10 and last ate at 5pm with no snacks at all youd go to bed hungry. We do dinner at 5:30 bed at 7 and he sleeps 12-13 hours straight no wakes at all unless he needs a sip of water which a bottle of is in his bed every night he will take a sip and go straight back down. As for his weight honestly, don't worry about him being the "fat kid" it drops off them quickly once they start moving and walking.
It sounds also like he could be over compensating for evening hunger by consuming so much in the day time so definitely add a dinner in
So we tried extra food between getting home and bed tonight and it resulted in half an hour of him screaming and crying and getting himself worked up. He didn't like or want what I offered so played with it. After 15mins of playing with his food I took it away which resulted in an absolute meltdown. I'm at a loss. He is a nightmare with food. Cries in the kitchen begs when we eat food. Nursery have even said he eats crumbs off the floor after his dinner. What have I done to make him THIS OBSESSIVE around food 🥺
It could be worth speaking to the health visitor to see if they can help out?
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Mine is in a mix of 2-3 and 3-4 clothing. If he had a meal at 3.30pm, mine would definitely need another meal before bed or he would be waking hungry! I would give him something extra personally. But yeah, mine loves his food, and can eat surprising amounts of it too!