Just need to vent

I just need to vent. Why is it so incredibly hard to find Mom friends when you're older? I've had such trouble finding friends close to me who want to hang out or just video chat and complain about our life. Oh and why is it so hard to find someone who is not going to bring their kids around when they are sick? I guess maybe it's just me but I don't think sharing is always caring 😂. This s*** is lonely.