advice needed pls
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what kind of advice are you looking for dear?
like how to move forward?
@Sarah Honestly I was trynna figure that out too 😭 tbh i just dont know how to move with this situation ppl are saying let him come around if he chooses to comr back accept his money blah blah
@Sarah yes how to move forward from this whole situation
do you have any kind of evidence about the abuse or anything like that? if it were me, then I would cut contact for the sake of protecting my baby. if violence occurred then there's no chance I'd entertain the idea of letting him come around. if he wants to be a part of the baby's life then it's on him to ACTUALLY get child support set up and the courts set a visitation schedule. but if you have evidence of dv then you could request supervised visits.
I say dont waste time on him. If he isnt trying its on him.
Don't send his money back.....
Although now you've done it, he'll probably never send it again
i would say don’t send the money back keep it & use it but you can take him to court for child support if that’s something you choose to do. but don’t get back with him because usually DV escalates and never stops. but keep the money girl
He owes you money for taking care of his child .. put him on child support and that doesn't include visitation btw. And if you're concerned about baby's wellbeing with father then you can meet at child advocacy centers ect and do supervised visitation. If he even seeks out visitation. Like I said child support court ain't the same as custody *visitation * he seems full of shit.. btw...
@Rachel he is full of shit lmaooo then gonna brag after i filed for child support that he lost his job😂😂😂 within the month of us not fw eachother he lost his job☠️
@lizzie tbh i sent it back cause hes such a manipulative individual i refused to believe he aint have a secret motive for sending that so i did not want it
Lol when he goes to court they consider jobless parents voluntarily unemployed and will tell him to get a job or (whatever the law is in your state, they can put men in jail over child support in TN, and revoke driving privileges)
The 70$ can be reported as money he sent for child. In court. But all they'll do. If you request back pay which you should. Is take that 70$ off of whatever he owes you lol
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Sending it back won't make you look better , or worse, you'll just be missing out on 70$
Theres a lot more to it we had a bad history of DV and he just was an asshole so i knew i had to stop fwh or else my son was gonna be witness to his mom getting mistreated.