Feeding problems

I don’t know about anyone else, but I’m sick of my 21 month old’s shit. Literally, thanks to grandma she enables these bad habits. She knows when I’m making her food she feeds her garbage and snacks before I actually give her meal to her. All she wants to eat is sweets and sweets before eating real food. She throws the real food on the floor. Her tantrum of wanting to eat sweets thanks to fucking grandma giving in to her. I’m at this point that if she develops health issues in the future she’s dealing with it because I fucking had it.

Show your support

This sounds so frustrating. Sorry but grandma needs to go 😂 my lo has never had anything with added sugar ever besides her pancake mix which has coconut sugar. Yesterday she had ice cream for the first time ever and it was sugar free. My parents know my daughter’s diet and they respect it and if they don’t they know I will go off. Is grandma babysitting and that’s why or do you live with her? I’m sorry this sounds so irritating I don’t blame you for going nuts

My son also cries for the sweets before his meals sometimes. What I do is just said no strongly. (No donut before food!) and everyone hear when you say this to your child. If my son still throw a tantrum, I leave him in a corner (time out) until he calm down and walk to his dining seat and eat his meal. My son is also 21 months old. Hope this helps you.

@Clara She lives with us it’s my husband’s mom. But she’s like type to be like oh if you don’t give them what they want they don’t like you when they’re older. Oh and don’t yell at them or make them do things they don’t want to do. I’ve seen all the kids she’s raised their so bad as adults😭

@Peggy she interferes when I punish her and thus causes her to gravitate towards her.

Well she has to go or I'm going... sorry not sorry I'm not letting anybody disturb my peace... raising kids is enough w/o anyone's extra bs to tend to... I'm so glad that my mom and the ppl around me respect boundaries... this would really pmo

Ew tell her to back off. You and hubby need to put your foot down of how you want your girl to be raised and that you know best for her no one else. It’s so sad that the older people should know better but they’re actually so unhealthy to have our children to be around for so many aspects. I hope she can learn her place which is in the back of the line. Good luck 🫶🏼

You need to explain to your mother that why you have to do or punish your daughter. Teaching or learning will be work if everyone in family does in the same way.

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌