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No you’re not! Personally when I had my daughter, my belly was so big I couldn’t get down there. I wasn’t going to ask my boyfriend.. I sure wasn’t going to have a wax done with all the discharge and crap that happens during that time. It’s natural for a woman. Only personal preference not self respect.
Noooo ! Many many many nurses and doctors will tell you that you DO NOT have to worry about down stairs lol. Actually it's safer not to shave or wax before giving birth because the hair is beneficial to block off stuff. (Not saying don't ever if you enjoy it being shaved lol ) But that's definitely not a self respect thing, she needs to learn self respect and shut her trap 🪤 😂💅🏻
It’s a personal choice! She sounds worried about the wrong things 🥴 I personally had the forbidden Forest bush with both my boys. Now I DID just go get waxed because I’m like let me just make this a thing now and hopefully I keep it up until I birth this third baby, but if I decide not to, no one will gaf, I know from experience. I also do pole fitness and I know eventually I won’t be able to reach and I like a clean look in my pole outfits. But if I didn’t have those reasons?! Girl bye!
Not wrong at all. Healthcare providers actually advise, especially if you're having a planned c-section, to NOT shave or wax to help prevent infections. I believe they advise still not to even if you're planning vaginally birth because if you do have to have an emergency c, same reasoning, prevent infections. No one involved in your birth will care, anyone who is a "friend" who does care isn't a real friend/has some deeply internalized misogyny. Women have hair on their bodies, it's natural, tech icakly what's unnatural is removing the hair because it's there for a reason.
I shaved best as I could for my section or else they do it for you. But if your having a vaginal, hair is probably best as if you tear you might get ingrown hair in the stitches.
Not at all! Believe me, they’ve seen worse! And that’ll be the least of their concerns while they’re down there 🤷♀️ your friend who has never been pregnant needs to keep her opinion to herself 🤣 if she wants to be perfectly groomed at 36-40 weeks pregnant she can have fun 🤣💗
It’s hard to reach, as others have said! And as someone with two kiddos now, the doctors and nurses DO NOT care about that stuff during that time and neither should you or anyone else there. Theres a lot more going on that’s much more important!
I’d block her too. It’s easier for self care after to be groomed slightly but still. Just make sure you shower before giving birth the day of or before and you’ll be good to go
As a woman??? Self respect?? That doesn't even make sense like what does natural adult body hair have to do with respecting yourself 😭😂 especially during pregnancy when it's way harder to groom down there and you're already exhausted and worried about other things lol I would have blocked her ass too
The audacity 😒😑
I wouldn't block her I'd inform her that even if she thinks it's nasty she doesn't have to see you but it's not worth all the time and effort to shave it just to risk infection. And they really don't care it's natural. Imagine the pain of tearing and itchiness of the hair growing back. And the infection it can cause
no lol, she’s never been pregnant so shouldn’t speak on an experience she hasn’t had.