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Look up littlebigfeelings and consideratemomma on IG. Idk how old your kid is but a lot of times it's that your kid cannot regulate their emotions properly. Im slowly learning how to regulate myself but I've noticed the more I regulate myself the better my 2.5 year old is acting. Less tantrums and less hitting. It's hard shitđ
Yes I totally know where youâre coming from. My 9 year old has sooo much attitude and disrespect itâs unreal đ¤Śââď¸ doesnât listen to a word I say unless I threaten to take YouTube away. Itâs hard work I feel you
Heâs definitely got some attitude on him at times.. canât wait for the teen years!
He's 9 and honestly my biggest challenge he has got alot. Going on for a little boy. But I swear he always angry the minute I say no to something it's a war straight away lol
@Kirstie a big part of battles is to give the child age appropriate choices to help calm down the tantrums/fights. He might feel as though he has no control over major parts of his life so when you say no he freaks out. So like littlebigfeelings course, it's your the parent you decide what's for dinner but the toddler gets to choose what plate he eats off of. Your son is 9yo so maybe he can help decide what meal you make and you guys can cook together. He might need some 1 on1 time with you to fill his emotional cup. If it's about screen time, I've seen my friend make coupons that her kids earn for chores, good grades, and good behavior (she made them on word and printed then out). They get to spend them whenever they want. They have like family movie night, 30 minutes of screen time, park time, date night with their mom,etc. I know I'm not at the 9 y/o spot but momming is super hard and you're doing greatđŠˇ
I wish it was a faze. My eldest is 17 and is really hard work. My 9 year old can have an attitude problem