Am I officially married?

How do I know if I'm officially married? We got an officiant which he chooses from the list given at the city hall (no witnesses) she didn't seem like she knew what she was doing maybe because she was new to officiating. It was a short ceremony and we signed the license after.
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U signed the license so your married . Did the officiant turn their paperwork in to register it ?

Did you get a marriage certificate?

@Carlene Langley she gave us something to hand in to get the liscence. I didn't know she had to register it .

Then what u handed in was probably it . My officiant did it for me 🤷‍♀️

I might be wrong but I’m pretty certain you can’t be legally married without witnesses?

@Emilie depending on what country they're in. In the US, some states don't require a witness...some allow dogs to be the witness 😂!

Not every officiant will submit it for you, ours didn’t and we had to mail everything off ourselves. Then it took almost 6 weeks to actually receive the license.

@Emilie you don’t need a witness or an officiant in Washington, DC specifically.

mine was exactly how yours went. we didnt need any witnesses but did have my family there for support . we signed a paper that he was going to turn in then told us to send an application and pay to receive a copy of our marriage certificate from the state vital of records. I live in Virginia.

Did you get a marriage license?

@Monét yea just found it. It says certificate and liscence. I didn't even remember anything. We did it right after I had my child my memory was so bad.

@Carlene Langley yea my officiant was in a rush she didn't care about us after the ceremony.

@Samantha wait mail what off? We submitted everything the same day at the same place and got it on the spot. We only needed our id and birth certificate.

@Mushroom ok maybe some states don't require it. I'm in CT

@Beth certificate and liscence are they the same

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I didn't think about that sorry lol

Aw I’m sorry !!! Mine stayed for the whole reception and ate and hung out with our fam . We had a very small wedding it was 14 ppl if I counted the minister and his wife

@Beth yea I have it

@Carlene Langley that's lovely I like when people bond outside of business.

Then yes you are married. If you want his last name you have to change it at the social security office

@Beth ok got it, thank you.

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