When mums of multiple children on here have to one up your post or down play your trials and tribulations.. by saying I wish I could do that, try running around after two. Wish I could do that, try doing that with two. Blah blah blah
I don’t get it. If you hate your days so much you feel like your stress is more than others, or little moments of joys or extreme stress in life is more than others. And you constantly use it to belittle others situations (who have one child). And moan about it constantly. That those with one child ‘should count yourself lucky’.
Why did you have another so soon? Why keep having kids if you hate it so much 🤷♀️
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I have 5 and whenever anyone says ‘omg how do you do it I just have one and it’s hard’ I always say motherhood is tough regardless of how many u have! I’d never down play another mums struggles just cos I have more kids. 1,3 or 10 this thing is tough but also the biggest blessing ever. If women are talking to each other in this way rather than supporting and encouraging, then that’s such a shame.. I’ve never seen comments like that on here though.
Less on here but my SIL is like that. I’ll send a finger painting or talk about an activity we did and 100% of the time she’ll say “oh well that stuff is so much harder with 2”
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As a parent of 2 and had 2under2, I would never because the amount of children you have does not qualify you more experience. Just a different experience. I know people who have had extremely hard first babies, and I honestly feel blessed that mine were quite easy. Changed ALOT when they turned toddlers, I think it made up for it. But your experience is your experience. My friend has 3 bio children and 4 stepchildren we support eachother, we don't compete with who has it worse. As I could never do what she does and I'm sure she probably would find 2u2 challenging. It's different, but we all face hard days when we could run into a wall 🤣