Sex!

Spare room at night once the baby is down in his next to me in our room (monitor on) 🤣🤪

@Gemma perfect!! we don’t have a spare room with a bed, and our baby does not sleep without being held 🥲🥲 trying to soak all the cuddles and contact sleeps in, but struggling with bringing sex back when there’s no free second!!

16 weeks and not done it yet! 🤣 Velcro baby too. Can't see there being an opportunity other than asking one of our mum's to come play with the baby for 30 mins while we go upstairs! 🙈🤣🤣 So won't be doing that!

Thankfully our baby will sleep great in his crib, but sex doesn't seem to last as long as before

honestly my baby sleeps soundly at night it’s my partner that doesn’t take the opportunity 😅

@Nikita haha yeah, like we are rushing to be done because it's awkward with baby there even when we know she is down for the night. (She sleeps like a log at night)

I’m 11 PP and first time was last week as now putting baby up in the bedroom for couple of hours before we go up. We can’t with him in the room we’re way too weirded out by it 🤣🤦🏼‍♀️ so finally the sex life is back 👏😅 xx

I had a Velcro baby with my first (3yo) and it was hard to find the time! Maybe when she fell asleep in the car and successfully carried her into the house asleep we would take the opportunity. Tbh though wish I hadn’t worried so much cause it really wasn’t that many months until she was in her own room and we had evenings again. With my 2nd now (3mo) and I’m just finding it sooo painful, had stitches after a 2nd degree tear. When does it get any easier 🤦🏼‍♀️ xxx

Hahaha no judgement but today he went down for a nap and me and my partner was in the kitchen hahaha 🤣 but it's been a long time since we've had sex and everytime we try to have sex he either wakes up or needs feeding haha. I never believed my friends when they used to say your sex life goes out the window haha 😂 but the first two months I didn't want my husband near me lol I was scared of the pain xx