I'm really sorry but I don't see any problems... Maybe I didn't understand?
You’ve Trojan horsed your feelings into the chocolate fountain text, as Jen said above don’t mix it in it’s a completely separate conversation, if you just write to her about the issues and what you want from the relationship separately she can’t really ignore it can she? And if she does it shows you don’t need to continue with that relationship
I wonder if you didn’t put the olive branch text into the same text as chocolate fountain, would she ignore it still? Like a separate txt another time in the future? Just a thought. Yes your in a tough spot, wanting to make right with her, and her not willing to budge.