What are grandparents, dad & babysitter feeding him? Could be that he has specific ‘safe foods’ and doesn’t luck the textures of the other food being offered? My 13 month old is so fussy with food it’s very hit & miss but if your son is hungry he will definitely eat something! It’s hard not to put pressure on yourself but you will find people will say how he eats everything with me or he doesn’t cry for me & so on but you’re his mum therefore you’re his safe space so he may just feel more comfortable declining things from you because he knows you’ll offer something else x
Try not to stress so much, my daughter is 3 and there are weeks where her nursery say she’s asked for seconds for lunch and cleared the whole lot while if i make the same thing at home she tells me its yucky 🤦🏼♀️ but then theres other weeks where she eats really well at home and at nursery so don’t beat yourself up too much kids are just like that sometimes xx
Maybe stop giving them the snacks till after they eat their meal. Crackers. Unless my child is having a meltdown, i try not to lead with that or they won't eat for me.