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It is weird and not normal.. I mean breastfeeding is natural and proven to benefit baby so like why tf would anyone WANT you not to lol that throws up my red flags on her state of mind 🤔 Also like do what makes you happy as a mom and as a woman in my opinion. Why should you or your fam be uncomfortable for anyone else. I'd tell him if he doesn't wanna come don't come either that's fine 🤷♀️ there's no rule on who can be invited into someone else's zone like ever As an adult you can set boundaries like that. I don't like my exes mom and I still tried to let her visit my home and her grandkid.. until she canceled twice and then said I needed to be put on a leash like a dog lmao so I was oh ok nevermind then. If someone makes you unhappy you have every right not to be around them whoever they are. Also side note I wouldn't let her keep baby overnight if you don't want to either. She really should be super respectful of what a new mom wishes for when raising baby. It's immature of her not to be
He’s willing to miss holidays with his child to make his mommy comfortable. Then mommy is going to be in his ear about how he should have the baby for holidays (probably why she wants you to stop bf). This can get nasty very very quickly when and if you guys separate. I’m petty. I would invite her, but make it the most uncomfortable and awkward situation she would ever be placed in without being able to prove I’m making it the most uncomfortable and awkward situation.
@Alyson I like this idea but I’m also petty. If she wants to act like this I would get on her level but in the most ridiculous way possible. Especially with my “husband.” Family dinner but they come and they get special seats labeled “mommy and baby,” get a large playpen set up in the living room with “husbands” name on it, serve food but his all chopped up and baby-friendly, have my whole family in on it too. Have them ask questions like he’s actually a baby “are you ebf? Do you pump? How old is he? Has he been teething? You know to put socks on him right?” Etc and anytime they get upset go “aww pp is so difficult” or “aww the baby’s getting fussy maybe he needs a nap.” All this ofcourse after I tried to sit him down and see the light but if he wants to be an idiot and disrespect his wife and mother of his child, he deserves no respect.
He’s the problem. He never set boundaries. She’s clearly disrespectful & intrusive. You don’t need her around your family, she’s established y’all relationship. If he don’t wanna go then it seems like the begging of the end cause he’s been letting her play in your face. Send that mamas boy back home cause unless he changes nothing is changing
1) say ok. It seems like nothing amiss other than them expecting everything while disrespecting others so have your family dinners and tell him to go to his moms if he’s hungry. 2) the rage I felt on your behalf when you said she was bitch to you during and after pregnancy, I’m so sorry. 3) don’t do it. Tell her to stfu. It’s weird af and yeah it’s normal to want to spend time with your grandchild but not forcing a mom to quit bf in order to get said child away from the mom. Cut that shit right out. 4) overall, I want to say this in the nicest way possible, your mil can suck my dick. Your husband too since he wants to keep up the emotional incest going on with his mommy. You’re his wife and mother of his child. Neither one of them are supporting your wants, needs, or boundaries.