If you went last year what’s the issue with you going this year that’s not adding up or making sense to me and I agree with syn the lady says she only wants family but the children are family they are half brother and sister lol so they are family and Ofcause your going to attend with your baby that’s not even 1 lol she’s got to be fr 💀
My partner doesn’t attend my stepsons parties for this reason or no longer contributes to them. She would always exclude me and my son or if I was allowed my son wasn’t allowed any food or to participate in activities and she’d vocalise it infront of everyone(even though we had paid half) and it was just horrible for my son but I always just took the food or let him join in 😂 but would suggest you either all go or all don’t go and celebrate it when you next see her x
I would call her and ask if she wants me and my baby to be there or not. If she says Don’t come.. then I don’t go.
Your partner should be the one asserting that both children are his children and there is no way in hell he would not include his family because of her own personal feelings. And if she decides that she won’t change her mind then I would be telling my partner he isn’t going either and instead do something with the kids alone separately on another occasion. But that’s just me