Baby fever but not ready

Is anyone else in the same position? I’ve been having horrendous baby fever the last few months, like my heart is saying it’s time for another baby but my head is saying I’m just not ready yet. But then on the other hand I’m worried about how long it may take to conceive! I’m stuck 😭😭 I’ve always said I’d like a 3 year age gap, so really I don’t want to get pregnant until around summer time! Does anyone else feel the same 🥲
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Totally get this! I'd love another one but I just don't think it's the right time yet. Plus we have holidays booked for next year and I struggled with sickness quite badly when I was pregnant so don't want to end up feeling rubbish on them if the same happens again 🙈 think we're going to get to this time next year and see what happens from there.

Omg same! My close friend has just had her second - her eldest and my LG are only 3 weeks apart too. The newborn scrunch, the little noises, them just being content in your arms 🥹. We’ve always said a 3/4 year gap too! I think our bodies are biologically wired to want more when our toddlers get older 😭

I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant with my 2nd! I was worried it might take a while to conceive and didn’t want to wait too long as I’m 35 now, but then fell pregnant on my first time trying! I’m very excited, but L do struggle with sickness in pregnancy, and have found it so much worse this time round with a toddler to look after too.

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