🤔 how did you and your partner / baby daddy act when you found put you was pregnant?

First time he was in a bit of a shock, we just had a nasty argument the day prior and were not in very good terms but it sank in shortly after. Second time he was surprised but not overly shocked haha both oopsies but second we weren’t actively trying nor avoiding 😬

@Agnes our son who about to be born is laughing at all the protection we used to prevent him and we both are happy over the fact we are gunna be a family together since he proposed at out baby shower

@Rhiannon my first pregnancy (ex partner, terminated) we used condom which split and I took plan B which didn’t work lmfao

@Agnes we used condom with spermicide and a plan b didn't stop this little man from wanting to be in the world

@Rhiannon already a very determined baby hahaha

I think my man was in shock honestly, he said he had a feeling but the first day we didn’t really talk about it much as he seemed mostly quiet and i didn’t want to push him, as we had lost another baby a few months before, but I believe it was the next day, he came from work and I woke up as he walked through the door and he brought me a huge stuff turtle and a bunch of snacks he knew I liked, after that when we’d go to sleep he’d hug my stomach a lot, and he’s not a big cuddler as he says he’s always hot and it only makes him hotter, the first time around we were on the phone as he didn’t live with us and I didn’t want to be alone while taking it, he said he knew all along, while I was just in shock, he seemed more level headed and happy than I was the first time around

Some babies are just stubborn - me finding out I was 11wks pregnant with a pill/bf baby that slipped by because with my other two I had severe HG. My then bd/now hubby was excited for all of them - had our first sons name picked out from the day I told him (was 6wks and went to hospital due to severe dehydration- had gastro/morning sickness and a kidney infection for them to be like surprise you’re actually pregnant too!) Second babe we weren’t actively trying for/avoiding and fell pregnant 4m pp

we were both definitely shocked, it was very unplanned. my first thoughts were fear and not knowing what do to. from the get go even in the shock he supported me 100%, he was nervous but happy. it took me a while to fully come to terms with it tbh, but i’m lucky to have a supportive partner

@Agnes I already know his gunna be like me and will be stupidly stubborn

@Des awh he sounds like he is such a sweet heart 🥹

@Izzie I was also scared cuase it's my 1st and it will be his 3rd , and he told me his 1st was an accident but was all in for it but she left him for a jail bird then the 2nd was due to his last ex baby trapped him he tried making it work wanted to do the right thing and marry her she said no & left him so I was scared to tell him but he had to know mainly cuase I thought he'll leave cuase I "baby trapped" him and I never asked him if he thinks if I did cuase I'm scared to ask cuase I'm afraid he'll tell me he thinks I did when I didn't cuase I took the plan b in front him in the car so he knows I took it

My husband knew when we first met he wanted a family. He was ecstatic. Also don't use social media and think reaction videos are hugely dumb

Mine didn’t believe the test and made me take two more. Then he was shocked and ecstatic

@Cierra I took 3 n had 2 lab tests due to going to a place doing a free one then the other needing their own

I took one after work one day on the day my period was due (just had some weird instinct) we was living at my parents (just put a deposit down to move out a few months later) we was coming over anyway and I just said to him I took a test today and it was positive he jokingly said are you f****** with me and I showed him the test, he was in shock but really excited, I had come of the pill anyway but I guess it’s just the shock that it actually happened. So we were both very happy.

kind of upset. gunning for me to have sn abortion. It felt wrong for me at the time so i decided to keep it and see what happened; he was kind of upset. resented me a bit, things were rocky. i couldn’t even talk about the baby without him withdrawing and being dry with me. now things are better of course, and he loves his son and me, but idk. that’s the kind of stuff you just don’t forget. i tried to solely take care of our baby for the first few weeks because I had remembered all the things he did and I didn’t want him to resent me or our baby for his needs. idk, again, things are okay now but i think i’ll always feel some kind of way about it.

Oh that’s a good question, we were trying to have a baby, we tried in July, August and nothing, in September she arrived but I found out the 6th of October and took a test because I was 3 days late, and my period was always very regular. We were working together, I bought the test without telling him because I wanted baby but also I was freaking out. When I told him he was really happy but after few minutes acted like nothing happened and I told him it felt weird for me his reaction. But him as the always rational person he is told me “well we planned we wanted so of course I was prepared and I’m happy” 😐😐😐😐😐

It was 6pm I’d been cleaning my house and had a voice in my head all day telling me to take a test but kept putting it off. Finally took it at 6pm put it on the bed set a timer and carried on cleaning it was positive. I balled my eyes out and ran downstairs to my mom who was in denial. My baby dad (now ex partner) was at work so I was going to tell him the next morning when he finished work. I rang him when I knew he was finished (he went back to his house) I asked him to come over I needed to show him something. He nagged at me to tell him over the phone and had a tantrum when I wouldn’t and he went ‘you’re not pregnant are you’ my reply was yes I am. To which he replied ‘for f*ck sake, I can’t deal with this. I don’t want IT’ and then didn’t speak to me for hours. Not exactly the best experience but oh well.

@Tabby this was exactly the same as mine and he’s an amazing dad now and says it’s the best thing that’s ever happened to him but I still often think of the start of my pregnancy and how he acted, I don’t think it’s something you can ever forget

@Micaela awh I wished he was more excited about it cuase it was planned

The day I found out we went to grab food and slushies we mixed alcohol in it and once I got home we were doing the do I started feeling so off and in the mix of that I went to go throw up didn’t think nothing of it just thought maybe I put to much in my slushy. Later that night he had left so I took a test because that was unusual to me and it was positive (mind you I had just tested negative a week ago) and when I told him he was in shock kept saying I’m lying and he was very nervous at first but then he started getting excited and started calling his parents he couldn’t stop talking about it.

Baby #1: I was too scared to look at the test so handed it to my partner. His face told me it was positive before he said anything. Then we were both kind of hysterical for a couple hours before it sank in Baby #2: I was on birth control and hadn't had my period at all in between babies but was getting morning sickness type nausea so took a test. I let my partner know before I did it but we were both completely certain it would be negative and I just had a stomach bug or something. I walked out of the bathroom in total shock and our conversation was: Him: Is it it negative? Me: No Him: ...oh

@Rhiannon yeah he is not like really showing his emotions. He only cried at the 1st scan and when I gave birth but after an hours or so. I had emergency C section so he was more worried 😅 but it’s ok, I know he is deeply in love with our daughter, he told me he loves her more then me, fair enough, only woman I allow

We had only been together 4 months so he was definitely shocked 😂 My period was late but that wasn’t abnormal, I woke up one morning and just knew I was pregnant and took a test. We spent a day a bit like ‘wtf do we do’ but after the initial shock he was very excited

He paced around the house for a few minutes and then was excited to tell everyone after that. But then when we found out the gender he raged out and went to his friends house and bitched about it all night until his friend told him to get a grip

My partner found the test in my bedside draw, so I showed it to him, and he just said, "You're pregnant?". No real reaction. It hurts to think about.