I totally get it! My mil says passive aggressive things to me using the baby voice. Itâs so frustrating. If you want, we can chat and laugh about what they say lol, at least weâre not gonna feel alone.
What a nightmare. Especially not passing baby back, that's awfully anxiety inducing. It sounds like you might benefit from getting a little tougher with her and not being scared to be a bit more direct with her?? If she says the granny not mummy thing for example, you could say something like 'That's not up fir discussion'. She might just need to be given the message that she can't push you around x
She sounds very toxic. If she can't respect boundaries I would put distance. Start not answering her calls, messages. If she pop up at your door, telling her you are busy right now and that she can't come in. If she get pissed you just tell her that you are your baby's parents and you won't allow any lack of respect towards you as a mom.
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Not any advice but I know how this feels so have sympathy for you. My partners mum has had all her friends meet our baby before my friends have! She took her in to her old workplace and passed her over without my permission! To say I was furious was an understatement, I never agreed to letting anyone else hold her, I donât know these people and my any cried the whole time! They just donât seem to get it do they?!! x