@Shanea before this I was in a very toxic relationship for about 6 years trapped in the same cycle but physical abuse and it took me 2 years to finally realize that I didn’t deserve it and be strong enough to leave. I’ve been through a lot trauma wise and it’s very hard for me to just get up and leave on someone as that’s how I’ve felt my whole life. I’ve been working on therapy for years now but I’m just so stuck. I know I need to leave but my mind just sucks me back in, leaving abusive partners is not an easy thing to do especially when manipulating is involved
thank you for sharing this so openly🤍i am deeply sorry you are going through this and neither you and your baby deserve this. it does sound like it’s not easy and has pulled you back in as you’ve been used to having toxic relationships but i think the voice of you that know this isn’t right for yourself and your baby and is seeking for help and brought you to ask for advice is desperately asking to leave that situation. its not easy but i am sure you’ll be better on your own and so will your baby. you sound like you’re doing so much(EVERYTHING) and you and your baby will manage alone rather than having a partner that also needs full attention and it is NOT your responsibility to fix his life or be in charge for him. specially when he is being this awful to you you deserve good things. you deserve better. you can do this. it feels heavy now but it will pass. do it for yourself and your baby. this is just harming you❤️🩹 keep talking and sharing like you do, it’ll give you strength!
My bd threatened the same thing. I took him to court and he only asked for a few hours on Sundays. He doesn’t even pick her up anymore. Don’t let him intimidate you! He’s not a supportive father or partner. Kick him to the curb
He cant take her from you he isn't even stable..you can do bad by yourself go ahead and kick him out and to the curb. I'm not understanding why you took him back to live with you if it didn't work the first time and the way he treated you. He's literally only doing what you allow. You deserve much better. Do what you need to do to get out of that miserable situation.