Single mums what’s the secret

I just stayed celibate until I found my partner

I still have it with my baby daddy 😂 but we get on very well so it’s all good 👌

@Lucy wow is that not damaging

@Sophie did u only sleep w him when u got together?

Yeah , I was celibate for about 8 months xx

I take measures to protect myself from any STDs so I have only been with men who got checked before we became intimate. Them agreeing to get checked before we do anything is showing respect to me and my health. So no fuck boys for me ever 😉

Been celibate for all of not even a month and it's KILLING ME - But I'm at the stage now where the person I had a mutual agreement with it's just awkward cuz I'm very pregnant so will have to wait until afterwards now I guess 😫😫 due end of December so I'm hoping by Feb I'll be back in the saddle so to speak cuz I am suffering ATM 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Clo oh huni I was the same I couldn’t pregnant but when the baby was out I did once 3 months later. I’ve honestly only had the chance to have sex 3 times this year and I’m DYING!!! How are we having sex with kids in the house that aren’t that mans is my question!!!! 😭 😭 😭

Nope I don’t find it damaging! We get on really well and we’re both happy to do so. I would rather my son’s dad than bringing a guy back who’s not his dad back.

Shame i couldn’t just have sex with my daughters Dad. Turned out to be a narc and not very nice but the sex was good and like you say atleast it’s not random men turning up.. i haven’t had sex with anyone new since which is 10 months now. Spoken to a couple of guys but just don’t have the time to date right now and don’t want a random guy at mine whilst my daughter is there. Hopefully one day i’ll get more time when my daughters Dad actually sees her more often🤔

@Becky sometimes you find out that the kids dad is the stranger man in ur home ….

Yeah true, it’s more that I know he wouldn’t be a danger to my daughter than meeting men online who i barely know if that makes sense. I hope to date again soon, just telling myself that the sex will be extra amazingggg once it happens again as been so long haha

@Becky a lot of the time u realise u was being DEPRIVED 😂😂

God yeah it’s going to be insane when it happens again😂😂 unless i get unlucky and the next guy is bad in bed😂😂

@Becky the 3 times I have managed to have sex this year have been 2/3 brilliant times lol. They was all different men, 2 that I have known a long time and one new guy. The new guy was horrendous and still tries to contact me to this day. I don’t think I’ve done bad for this year only 3 lol but I would just like to have a regular guy with no meaning that I trust so I’ve been circling back to long term friendships I’ve had but both have ended up in relationships 😭 who knew it was this hard

Ive been almost a decade without and used donors both babies no sex and ive never wanted it more since i got pregnant 1st time around and got worse after birth and now its like cant do anything about it well not till after baby number 2 arrives anyways 😫

Don’t have the time or energy 🤣 Not really interested tbh I’m sure when babies older I’ll be bothered but right now not on my radar tbh

@Zhang Lee what are you even doing on this app 🤷‍♀️🙄

Staying celibate until I find a new relationship which could take a VERY long time unfortunately 🥺 it’s a bit hard but it is what it is, life could be worse I guess 😂😂😂😂

I made a cheeky Ann summers order cuz I swear pregnancy hormones are making it so badddd

@Zhang Lee why are you on this app. It’s for women

@Sophie literally and the reply is BS. When you look at his profile he's joined all single women's threads- a man preying on vulnerable women by any chance? Supprise supprise 🙃

@Clo reported the trolls profile but Peanut don’t seem to be doing anything about it. Maybe if more report it it should get kicked off

@Clo disgusting right

@Emma I've done the same! And every thread I've come across that he has commented on I've reported the comment too. Discusting. This is meant to be a safe space for women :(