Need some advice mamas
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I wouldn't say it's selfish but I would expect to be doing it all alone. If you don't terminate, I would let him know as if he wants to be involved, the child deserves to have a relationship with their father.
Your choice your body! Your decision is independent of his and ultimately if you are willing and able to have baby without his input more power to you!
Ofc you can but it would be kinda immoral to put him on child support. You'll be doing this alone.
Not selfish at all. You're absolutely entitled to change your mind, but you do have to respect that he's made his opinion and wants clear and you're changing up the agreement on him. It wouldn't be fair to you to get rid of a baby you want to keep, so don't terminate purely for his sake, but do go into this knowing it's only fair to leave him out of it and not expect anything from him. I think it is fair to let him know in case the reality of a baby (vs the hypothetical) also leads him to have second thoughts, but don't expect it to. I just think he has the right to have that chance and know he has a kid out there somewhere even if he still doesn't want to be involved
If you want to keep your baby, please keep your baby - that's not selfish. Considering the conversation you'd already had with this man, I think you should be doing so with no involvement (financial or otherwise) from him though - expecting him to pay when these clear conversations had been had would feel a bit unfair. You could tell him and see if he still feels the same, as he may actually want to be involved in baby's life when it's a real possibility?