For those of you in healthy relationships, what’s the worst argument you’ve had?

I was talking with a friend and shared some of my husband's personal information he didn't want me to share. It was a hard point for us because it affected me too, and I felt like I couldn't talk to anybody about it. We talked through everything and met with a counselor. We came to an agreement to have a few close friends we both agreed on to know what was going on so I could talk openly with them if I needed to. Other than that, we really haven't argued about anything other than trivial things. We've never had blow up yelling fights, never thrown something, or said something that would seriously hurt the other person. If we need to, we take time to calm down, think through our feelings, and reconnect about it later.

During my pregnancy, I was feeling insecure and ended up going through his phone. I didn’t find anything, but I told him about it, and he was understandably upset that I violated his privacy. He hadn’t given me a reason to do it—I was just being nosy. I didn’t expect him to be as upset as he was, which made me dig further. That’s when I found messages from when we first met, before we were dating but definitely talking. Now, I’m 100% sure he’s not the type to play games, and after dancing around the issue for three days, we finally talked about it. I feel like that was a big learning moment for us, and it’s probably the worst it’ll ever get

During postpartum I created a lot of arguments and was constantly upset with my partner. He wasn't doing anything wrong looking back now. We have come a long way since then and now its strengthen our relationship. The most we argue about now is what's for dinner 😅🤣

@Angie this!! After my 2nd baby, I started a lot of fights with my partner too and when I look back I can confirm I started fights and was probably going through some sort of PPD and he was definitely my punching bag, and he didn't do anything wrong

Our love languages are veeeery different. He’s touchy feely words of affirmation and I like quality time and acts of service. At the end of the day being a SAHM and a full time remote employee, I’m touched out and want to sit in silence. 😂 needless to say, it goes a long way to find out what your partners is and give them some love in a way they like and not how you like to receive. Small things matter

Him not standing up to his side of the family when we set boundaries for are baby and apparently my MIL didn’t care and openly admitted to kissing my baby on the cheeks even tho I said no to kissing and he doesn’t say anything or tell her to stop it. Also money at the moment but that’s going to happen sometimes