Do you Fit in?

I am an odd one Or at least that is what I am made to think of myself. I was the last one in school to be picked The last one to be sit next to The empty seat on the bus that no one wants to take The friend that had that one friend that at the end still remained alone when another more important friend would come around. But I'd be the first to be there when they needed me The first to give the first to listen the first to lie for them to take the hit. Knowing deep inside that none would ever do that back for me. Are we born like this ? Why do we exist why do I seem to still seek love this way. I am tired . I just wanted to see if there were more of me out there

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@Nikki i guess we haven't found the secret on how to fit the mold. I wish I'd know

Thanks Nikki ❤️ I do know that I have to accept it , it's just that lonely is an unwanted choice if rather not be . But you are right

I can relate as well I’ve never felt like I fit in. I feel like I will always be there for others but I never get the same energy back

I feel that this might be because they are intimidated by you. You aren’t intimidating, no. But because of their own flaws they project their insecurities onto you and push you out. There really isn’t anything you can do but continue to be your happy self. But I would suggest don’t go half way for people who won’t do the same. ❤️

It’s super shitty being that person. I am as well and I just started learning to choose my friends wiser and to set boundaries otherwise you get used and it hurts so much

@Alina yes and I have tried to do the same as to be just as cold as they are with me but I can't find myself doing that and at the end I end up being there no matter what so I understand 💗

@Wendi I try not to , but sometimes I fear that because of me , my kids end up being also alone. Like if there are party's and they don't get invited I always ask myself if they had another mom maybe it would not be this way. And I know it's wrong but I can't help feeling this way. So I try to organize ss much as I can for them.so they don't end up feeling like I do - isolated

@Samantha I know ❤️I have so many stories on getting used. I cried my eyes out so many times I scrolled through my phone some days trying to find someone that would just listen to me when I felt In need of a talk and endet up noticing that no one was going to pick up It's a rough life when you're sensitive

@Fabiana that doesn’t make you sensitive, it makes you an amazing human being and some people aren’t as thoughtful especially in todays world

@Fabiana I’ve always felt like this until I learnt I was an old soul.. it feels rubbish at times but we are special on the bright side ✨

@Samantha Thank you ❤️ it's nice to know that we aren't alone with these thoughts and that there are many of us 💖 I wish we could tell our younger selves that but it's a little late for that , so I just have to keep growing stronger

@Lina so positive ❤ thank you

@Fabiana absolutely! Would be a game changer! But if you ever need anything or something to talk to, please feel free to reach out💕💕💕

I never tried to fit in but I definitely never have. I was bullied in school so badly I begged to be transferred out I was always used and taken advantage of too by people because I just wanted to be liked 🤷🏼‍♀️

Don't know if that is the case with you, but my parents always taught me to be polite, gentle, obedient, and so on, and I always thought that had put me in an odd position many times. I try now to be slightly different with my son because the world has become a wild west and that gets me worried for him and for all the good-hearted people out there!

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