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so i met someone and was with them for just over a year my lo dad isn’t involved with him and my lo took to my partner as his dad well now we have spilt but he has agreed to not stop seeing lo as he gets upset when he hasn’t seen him but i’ve also found out im pregnant after the spilt he wants me to get an abortion but i don’t want to and it’s causing a lot of problems and im worried if i keep the baby he won’t see my lo. my head is all over the place and im just confused
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@Hattie he says he wouldn’t be able to not be there for his kid if it was actually here but right now he can’t cope with a child and he should have a right
At the end of the day, it's your choice not his. He can offer his opinion but it's not his body! Do you want this baby? If you do, it sounds like he may not support you but he might change his mind, life is long!
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Has he said why he doesn't want the baby? (Not asking you to tell us, just want to know if he has given you a reason other than "just don't want it"). Would he be open to continuing the pregnancy if you agree he has no paternal obligations? (May be best to do that one in writing).