Perineal massage?

I wanted to do it this time around for my 3rd pregnancy but anytime I needed my partners help I would just laugh and laugh about it. Also it just feels weird. Lol. I know theres benefits but I just can't get past how silly I feel when attempting it.

I think I would be the same!

@Jasmine yeah and like id do it myself but I just can't see and it feels so much further away with my belly in the way. Then I'd be worried about missing a spot 😂😂

I literally cannot reach! My partner had to attempt to shave me down there with hair clippers and I was just roaring with laughter the whole time.

I will be trying it out tonight! My partner is just going to use fingers for now and see if we even need a wand.

We figured we’d try the same thing first

@Jasmine my partner shaved me and I laughed so hard that I had to stop to pee! We were both cracking up cause I kept trying yo move my stomach out of the way but then lifting my stomach I couldn't breathe, so I decided to stand with my legs open while he sat down to get a good view so he didn't nip me. We were just cracking up the entire time in the bathroom! Ah the joys of pregnancy

@Leslie lol! We tried it once and never again.

My husband started helping me at 30 weeks. At first it was a little wierd but now it’s just a part of the routine. I definitely don’t think I could go as firmly as he does.