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My baby daddy and I hung out for the first time in a few months. He finally saw our kid, and everything was great. Previously, he was mentally abusive, but he has since seen a psychologist and seems to be better. Honestly, I really miss him, and he says he missed me and wants me to move where he is so we can continue our lives together. I just don’t know what to do now. Please help. Do people really change.
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@Lisa yes of course! I’m really iffy about it but I’m hoping it is a permanent change
I would try to air on the side of caution because often people can change for a short period of time but then old habits and behaviours creep back in when they become comfortable again. If he truly has learnt and is changing then he should understand and respect you taking your time and wanting to see consistency over a longer period of time. X
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See if there’s consistency in his action before you just up and move and fall in to the trap. I would know first hand fr