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I’m sorry to hear that! If you were closer I would say let’s hang out! Do girl stuff ya know :)
Have you talked with your husband about this? Specifically about not feeling satisfied, most men that I know are determined to ensure their woman is beyond satisfied in bed. I think AFTER you have this convo & only once it’s solved, you could bring up the fantasy as well. Maybe he would be into a 3some or something like that. Regardless, find the spice back in bed between you two before considering another person.
Forsure. I don’t know how to get us back to how things were before I got pregnant
I’ve noticed a change since our baby was born. I don’t know what happened in the delivery room but it has changed everything! I think he’s afraid of my vagina now. 🦷 As someone who has been with men and women I can say both have been great and have their own specialness. Sending lots of love out to my sisters 👯♀️💕
I feel the same way I just feel like my man has gotten lazy I feel like he’s become selfish and makes sure he finishes but not worried about if I do or don’t, if I finish along the way fine but if I don’t he doesn’t make sure it happens, our sex life has pretty much become non existent and I hate it. Also I haven’t really lost any weight since having the baby and I kinda lost my confidence especially in the bedroom and I just want him to make me feel like he’s still sexually attracted to me but it’s like he just is like eh whatever if he does initiate sex there’s no foreplay involved it’s just like let’s just get to it to the point where a lot of times I’m not even wet first I just feel like when we do have sex he just doesn’t put in any effort anymore, and he says he spent 12 years in prison so sex is not important to him and he can go without it so if I don’t initiate it then it just won’t happen and like I said when he does initiate it there’s just no effort