I hate men!

ew wtf that’s wild

@Mia we are married with 4 kids!! How do u even trust someone after that?!

Why would he even say that like?? 😕 I'm sorry

no idea.. im so sorry. whyd he even say that like in what context and why did he think that was an okay thing to say?!

Some thoughts should stay in our heads like what the fuck is that

Some things are better left unsaid. He said it to hurt you, and he did it. I’m so sorry 😞 🫂

Wow that is crazy

He was drinking and we were just talking. He’s about to start a new job and we were talking about his old one and how in my previous experience I’ve seen committed men compromise themselves in work settings and he was like oh that could never be me and say how in his old job one particular girl banged about 3 guys and even tried it on him but he never fell for it and then went on to say and I quote ‘if it wasn’t for these kids I could have banged her even though I’m not attracted to her at all but for political reasons and to have her on side I would have entertained her’ I stayed calm and and repeated it ‘so if you didn’t have these kids you would have banged her’ and he said ‘yes if I were single I would have’ I hate that!! And I hate him soooo much right now!!! I can’t shake this!

I have trust issues already and I thought I married a man of integrity and now I know I married one of those ‘of if I was single hell yea’ kinda men… I don’t trust him at all now! I don’t even respect him anymore! But he’s an amazing dad and before last night was an amazing husband!

Sounds like a narcissist! I’m so Sorry you’re dating one. I used to date one. Glad I’m out. No way would I say that to my partner. He just needs to Work harder and get a promotion on merit now.

I’m sorry you’re going through that. I found my ex was paying a monthly subscription for a onlyfans girl he knew in the past before we got engaged. Hid it for two years before we broke up and I found out bc I was pecking up his stuff and found photos she was sending to thank him for his support! It was heart wrenching! He said he wish he slept with her, basically if I wasn’t around he would try to be with her. It was really upsetting to hear. It didn’t help she was completely opposite of me. She is like his perfect dream girl. Made ne feel like he settled and thought about often or something! It doesn’t feel good these men have no idea how it feels and that sucks

If he’s been good so far the can’t he be a great husband and father yet understand how to play the game and be strategic? I wouldn’t read too my much into it