I'm soo full of pain

Trying to distance myself from the baby father after finding out that he had sexual relations with another woman. Although I'm scared to do this pregnancy alone. I am 16 weeks but I've weirdly needed the reassurance and support from him but I don't want to get hurt again.
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I will quite happily be there to replace whatever reassurance that man could give you. I’ve been in a similar position throughout my entire pregnancy and have come to terms that doing things alone. protecting your own peace will benefit you more than this man will I can assure you! please drop me a message if you ever need anything. your support system is much more than just him ok? x

I’m going through a similar situation right now. I’m 19 weeks and I kept trying to make things work with my baby’s father because I didn’t want to be alone. After it not working several times I realized that what’s best for me and my baby is to distance myself from him and only communicate with him about the baby. Every time I would go back to him it would cause more hurt.

@Willow Thanks for your support, I'll send over a msg

@Alivia 🙏🙏🙏 Thats true

It gets so much better after leaving you can do this xxx it’s his evilness making you feel as tho you need him and his reassurance, trust me single mum life absolutely rules. My daughter is 17 months and has never met her dad and I have loved every second of it. Before she was born I struggled with depression, drug use, family violence problems and it seemed as if my life would never get on track. Doing this myself has been so powerfully rewarding and I no longer feel like a victim, although I definitely was. I hope you are ok, you are making the right choice! Xxx here if you need also :)

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