Sex drive is GONE

Hey! I'm 11 weeks pregnant with my second, and i never ever have a aex drive LIKE EVER. I feel so guilty and bad for my husband. He asks and I say no all rhe time. I never used to be like this but I just don't get turned on or anything. It's bad , any one else out there ? Tips ? Tricks? :(
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This is me too! Also my second baby. We’ve found that having one night a week as couples night has really helped. He cooks dinner, runs me a bath, makes an effort with his clothes, lights candles, puts the kids to bed. Then we spend time doing a fun couples activity together. Has really helped me to want to have sex with him again. And it’s not a lot of pressure as now he knows it’s just once a week.

Ahhh this was me too! It didn’t help that I had really bad sickness 🫠 so never ever felt up to it and also barely brushed my teeth and hair daily so I think my Husband wasn’t too interested in me anyway so I didn’t feel so much guilt 😂😂 it will come back. There’s such a huge surge and change in hormones at the start it’s totally normal. I’m 22 weeks now and glad to say that what was normal for us pre pregnancy is pretty much back on track 😊

Same boat. (Not pregnant though) I never had interest in sex and my husband always wants it and ever since I weaned from breastfeeding I don’t even have the energy to fake it anymore. I have zero interest. I tell him To go find it elsewhere and he’s insulted lol

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