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I don’t think girls always get more but I think as they grow and get married off, they tend to maintain a direct relationship with their parents whereas men tend to not be as communicative with their parents. This makes parents think that the daughter in law has changed the son but the truth is men are not the bond makers in the family. Women tend to keep families together- thats why we tend to have better relationships with moms side of the family than dads. It by no means lessens the pain, because our desire to bond with husbands family is definitely strong. It’s just hindered by our husbands abilities to bond with their own families.
I feel like this is something my brothers probably say about me 🤣 I'm very close to my mum and my children all adore her. Some of my siblings still live at home but out of the ones who don't I live closer... I also have more children and lived with my mum for like the first year of my eldest life. I am more likely to reach out and ask my mum for help and if she's not around I call my grandparents. Truth be told idk how much my siblings reach out, though. I am my mums only daughter, and we do message each other most if not all days 😅 I don't think my brothers are as obsessive 🤣 My partner is the second out of 3 but they're all boys. There have been moments I've had to push for him to make him want to see his mum. I did stop after so long of trying to push for him to want to have relationships with family because it is draining. Both his brothers have very different relationships with their mum. Not any 2 of all 3 have the same sort of bond with her xx
I personally wouldn't run after them. They want to treat you poorly, just distance yourself and your kiddos. They deserve better than that