Hurtful words

My partner has been going out quite alot with his friends. He moaned at me because I didn't get up in the night with our little girl because he was hungover from the night before. We had words last night and he said 'it's not my fault you've got no friends'. I have no friends here because I moved away from home to be with him and also newly postpartum so a lot of the friends I did have don't bother. How would you feel?

Show your support

I’d be fuming with this, what a horrible thing for him to say! Hope you’re ok x

I'd be the same tbh. I moved from all my friends and family I only know a couple of people here so I know how you're feeling. I hope you're alright xxx

Sending you massive hugs because yeah, I'd be pretty furious. I think my response would've been something along the lines of yep, it's my fault for moving - maybe I should rectify that! ❤️

Thank you :( I think it's just hurtful because I felt alone like I had no one and then for him to say yeah well you don't have any friends felt like that was confirming how I had been feeling if that makes sense?

Bless you, it's never nice hearing that from a loved one when you've moved everything for them. I'm not sure where you are from but I'm sure if you made some friends through this plenty of lovely people would be happy to meet up. Just know that you are not alone and happier times will come xxx

Yes that's out of line and so ungrateful. Urgh this annoys me. Your partner doesn't see that you're putting 100% of your time in at the moment. I'd definitely suggest you having some time out at the weekend, even if it's just for an hour or two...get a massage, get your nails done, grab a coffee or lunch. You don't need company for that, it's just so you have some time by yourself. See how he likes being responsible. If he won't do that for you then he's not got your best interests at heart xx

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌

‌

‌
‌