Does it annoy you when you have to always reach out to friends and if you don't it'll be days before someone reaches out?

Yes!

It annoys me to no end. Just recently stopped talking to a friend because she would almost never reach out, but if i went a while without reaching out (i have 2 kids and things get busy) she would get upset with me because she hasn’t heard from me. And I’m like um? When was the last time you called me ?

Anger comes from fear. Most of the time when people are annoyed when others don’t reach out first, they really are wondering if the other person loves them as much as they love the other person. Most of the time we get these kinds of complexes when we are really young (mommy daddy stuff). It’s not their fault. Judge how they feel about you based on how they treat you when you do talk to them, see them, need them. Some people aren’t tied to their devices. I love my friends like we came from the same hoohah but I can go weeks without talking to them.

@Cameron Yah I saw one friend looked at a story of mine on insta. I reached out and msgd her and she didn't say anything...again so I'm done with her.. I have 2 kids and I can still msg and keep up with people all while working and doing school