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My husband won’t follow enforce court order and let’s bm get away with anything . How they handle step daughters arrangements is none of my business but I don’t feel it should affect how I live my life especially if I have no say in all . I respect that I’m not the bio parent but it’s not fair if he expects me to stop my life to accommodate last min changes .
He is so deeply affected by the custody battle which I understand but he’s not willing to do anything to change it . I’ve tried to be patient , understanding, made sacrifices and have gone through it all with him . But if he’s not willing to fight for sd there’s nothing I can do. don’t want to sit in depression anymore . Im choosing myself and my own happiness even if it means he’ll be depressed alone . I can’t let this consume me …
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Unfortunately, what I’ve seen with alot of step moms & my self. Is dad always let bio mom wins. No matter how much it negatively affects his household, relationship or marriage. It’s almost like they have some type of power over them. Some men won’t allow it but sadly some men do.
Felt this! Shit is hard when things aren’t arranged correctly. Then we’re left in the middle of the mess.
You're not a nanny, maid, or servant. You're a SO and deserve better
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Oh incognito, this sounds so incredibly difficult and I can see that you care so deeply and want to be supportive. I think you are making the best decision for yourself, and at the end of the day only you are responsible for your happiness. 🩷 this is a really tough place to be in, sending positivity to you and hope you find something lovely to do or treat yourself with