What is the age of your baby? If the raisins are soft, they are easier to manage however they are very high in sugar and tend to stick to the teeth. At the end of the day if it makes you uncomfortable, it is a valid reason to make it stop.
I would say if you’re uncomfortable she should listen whether you’re mad or not. It’s your child. Also, raisins are one of the worst things for their teeth as they’re very sweet and get stuck to the teeth so maybe if you have more than one reason she might listen?
I’ve been giving raisins to both my kids from 6 months old.
I don’t think you’re going mad at all. It doesn’t matter how old your child is, you’ve asked her not to do it so she should respect this. Why’s she so obsessed with raisins??
Depends how old she is? My LG is 16 months and I don’t worry about raisins as a choking hazard, but I restrict them for their sugar/impact on teeth.