Advice / help 😭😂

Hi, so I’m 23, and have 2 kids. I was set on 2, and have always said I don’t want any more. Obviously love them to bits but genuinely don’t think I could cope with anymore. And had awful postnatal depression with my first. This morning found out that I’m pregnant again. Obviously the first reaction was cry 😂 As much as I’d love another little baby, and to buy baby stuff ect. I’m not convinced my mental health could do it. But I’m also not sure I can get rid of it, and feel like I would always hate myself for getting rid of my partners kid and my kid’s sibling.. Just very conflicted, and don’t really have anyone I can go to. I know my other half will want it, so need to know where I stand with it before I tell him. I’m not sure I’m looking for advice necessarily, just needed to tell someone and don’t have anyone to tell 😭😂 thank you 🥺xx

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Hey hun !! You gotta do what’s best for you and your health , everyone can give you advice but unfortunately it’s your choice. Your partner will support you no matter what you do , take some time , go speak to your doc , you’re not alone !! I hope you’re okay ❤️

I hope you’re okay! That’s a hard place to be.. the truth is there will never be a right time I think there’s always something going on where it doesn’t seem right. But sending you love, don’t be too hard on yourself and I hope your partner understands and supports you and your decision ❤️

Thank you 🫶🏻 I know it’s not something that anyone can actually help me with. Just feel really alone. And know that whatever I do, I can’t take back. Just needed someone to tell 🥺😂xxx

So this was me, only I was 10 years older! I had 2, set on 2, didn't want anymore at all. Same as you, had depression after my first baby. But fell pregnant with my third, had a huge melt down, after a massive fight with my partner I booked a termination. Had a date for it to happen but cancelled it last minute. I kept her, had her, she's the absolute joy of my life! I wouldn't change it for the world! And, just because I'm a sucker for punishment and have never learnt my lesson, I'm pregnant again with no. 4 😂 Honestly, do whatever you need to do but having 3 isn't as hard as people make out x

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