Am I in the wrong
So my partner said he would never let work get in the way of his home life, he has recently come to me saying he’s working our daughter’s birthday weekend and the one before. I said it’s out of order and I’m not waiting around for you to finish work to let her open her presents as it’s her day not yours and you didn’t have to work, he’s now said he’s leaving at 10am, it takes 2 hours to get home. Be home at lunch time. I’m also 30 weeks pregnant and have to sort her day out myself now. Bare in mind they haven’t had a weekend shift all year and now they choose to on the worst week? (Own their own business) they don’t know where they are going after this job but they have another one lined up after Christmas, he has 10k saved up as I pay the bills so there is no treason for him to work the weekend. Am I in the wrong for saying what I said and being upset about it?
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@Nicola It’s stressing me out because we had it planned now he’s dropped everything for work when he doesn’t need to go in🥲Apparently these are the only weekends and I said it’s not your problem.. but now it’s me being dramatic because she ‘won’t remember’ it…
Honestly if he’s responding like that than I’d leave him too it and celebrate with her without him. I’d just be saying to him just remember you picked work over her when you didn’t have to
I'd celebrate without him. He hasn't worked a weekend then it happens to be the one on her birthday? Nope!
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I would be upset considering it is your daughter’s birthday. Can he not ask if he can work the weekend after her birthday?