idk what to do
my bd was horrible when i was pregnant. we broke up when i was 7 weeks pregnant, barely had any contact and would argue every time we spoke. when our son was born we started talking again and i’ve just found out he slept with 2 other women, he was a virgin when we first started dating. i’m so sad when i go on his social media, he was having the time of his life during our breakup while i was super depressed and pregnant. he’s changed so much and was doing things he always said he would never.
i also wanted to become celibate postpartum but he keeps asking for s3x. i love him but i need to love myself more. i don’t want to break up with him as he will not be in our sons life or support him. any advice?
If he was worried about being in your sons life he would have been present and kind during your pregnancy not out having a blast like your son didn’t exist.. I would cut him out completely start child support or something he sounds like a total ass and he’s trying to use you. I said what I said 🙌❤️