Feeling upset after sex

I think you should separate if you feel this way.

Are you being co-erced into having sex? Because the only acceptable tears after sex should be happy tears after having multiple orgasms. If things are this bad, you definitely should not be with this person. My advice would be to leave/break up because no man is worth this level of trauma.

@Neena no, but I can not orgasm maybe it's all what's happened. I can't enjoy now here as before my body just not feeling him, which makes me feel worse. We don't make love. We have sex

Hi assuming it’s nothing awful you guys have/are going through. It might just be a sign you have some stuff to deal with and definitely don’t ignore the problems. Try not to stress it’s more common than you think. But like I said as long as it’s not awful stuff or abuse etc etc Google it or Chat gpt. When you understand it I promise you will feel better and more in control xx

What exactly has happened Incog?

If this is how you feel during sex then your relationship is over

My body just seized up, and he touched me, and I felt pure pain of how he hurt me. The whole situation with him but not orgasm making it worse at least that be something. I don't feel he loves me. He was hugging me the pain in my heart. I am trying to move forward, but like my body rejecting him. It's mad, and after he falls asleep, he doesn't even know I am crying. Maybe he does because he asks me if I am okay, but we never have that conversation. He asked me why I didn't want sex. He also said he looks at me thinking am I am I not horny. The truth is I do, but I wish it was someone else more affectionate, more caring, etc.

Correction I don't think he ever loved me the way I loved him, and now I am resentful and sometimes want to just hit him.