I’d just keep your delivery secret. Move if you can so he doesn’t know where you are. And don’t tell anyone when you go into labor so it can’t get back to him. And don’t list anyone as the dad on the birth certificate. Just tell them unknown. 🤷🏼♀️ if he’s 17 I doubt he has the money to take you to court and fight for custody. But if he does save everything he says to you, so you can show the type of person he is.
If you don’t put him on the birth certificate he has no rights to ur baby. You’re free to do whatever you please.
You can definitely do not need to involve him. Dissapre sweet heart.
Honestly this is exactly what I did. I was 15 when I had my son. I was with his sperm donor at the time but he was in jail. So he was not listed on the birth certificate (thank god lol, I was upset about it at that moment but now I’m like thank the good lord!) so I’m the only one listed. We were on and off for years. Then when my son had just turned 3 I was done with the abuse and couldn’t do it anymore so I left. And I just never took him to court for child support. So there is no paternity established. I’ve never received a penny from the man and I don’t want to. We moved out of town when my son was 5 (I lived with my mom when we broke up then moved out on my own 2 years later) I’m still in the same state but hours away. My son will be 14 on the 15th of October. I literally just left and never looked back. 🤷🏼♀️ luckily he’s also never tried to take me to court for visitation. Feel free to message me if you need to vent or talk. 🩵