How to get confident
Hey girls. I'm 6 months postpartum and 3 pounds shy of my prepregnancy weight. My sex life with my husband had kind of gotten less and less, and me breastfeeding and being really dry down there doesn't help. I'm bad at initiating for fear of rejection even though he's never rejected me. He's told me 'you touch me down there and we will be having sex'. I want to wear some sexy lingerie and show him that I find him attractive and he's wanted and all that but in not that dominant and confident. Like, I want to be this confident and sexy person and idk how. How do you find the confidence to do it?
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@Natalia we have bedroom toys we use from time to time. I've worn lingerie before I just don't do it much. I just want the confidence to wear it and be the one to initiate sex. Like straddle him in lingerie and show him that I desire him and want him as much as he shows me but I chicken out every single time.
HI, I looked at your profile pics, and you are very pretty. Your husband should consider himself very lucky. You just need to get in the right mindframe that you can do this and deserve this. After a while, it will be more natural and comfortable.
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Hi! I would start with baby steps. Why don’t you first maybe get a bedroom toy for yall to enjoy together. See how that goes and it might give you the boost of confidence you need in feeling more intimate with him. Maybe after that get some cute underwear to wear around a bit, then maybe lingerie another night. I wouldn’t jump straight into something you’re not comfortable with yet! But you will get there!. I’m really glad he desires you so it’ll make those steps a lot easier for you. Hope this helps 😊