What would you do?
I have a group chat with some high school girlfriends. We wanted to organise a catch up so I posted in the group asking when suits everyone. They’ve all left me on “read”. It has been 12 days. Would they have just forgotten? I’m tempted to leave the chat as life has been very bad lately and that has made me feel down even more. Or do I just forget about it and if someone replies they reply and if they don’t we just won’t catch up? We last caught up 12 months ago.
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Sounds like they don't actually want to catch up. How many people in the group chat? Are y'all still actually close?
There are 5 of us. Some of the others are closer but we all said we would like to keep in touch and have our kids be in each other’s lives even if it’s once a year. I was the last one to join their group in high school so I always felt a little on the outs but when I told them they assured me no they’ve never felt that way.
Leave the chat quietly not worth the headache
Especially if everyone read the message already and it’s been several days
Just be quiet too and ignore till someone gets back... or not. It's sounding abit mean girlish to me idk ... they may be talķng and deciding without you ..just be silent too.
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That’s odd. Can you reach out to one of them that you’re closer too?