Sounds like they don't actually want to catch up. How many people in the group chat? Are y'all still actually close?
There are 5 of us. Some of the others are closer but we all said we would like to keep in touch and have our kids be in each other’s lives even if it’s once a year. I was the last one to join their group in high school so I always felt a little on the outs but when I told them they assured me no they’ve never felt that way.
Leave the chat quietly not worth the headache
Especially if everyone read the message already and it’s been several days
Just be quiet too and ignore till someone gets back... or not. It's sounding abit mean girlish to me idk ... they may be talķng and deciding without you ..just be silent too.
That’s odd. Can you reach out to one of them that you’re closer too?