Must you ladies have a baby with every man you get with ?

Also y’all be in a relationship for less than a year falling pregnant and confused when shit don’t work out .. like what makes you think you know someone after a year ? Heck you can be living with a man your whole life and not know him.

I have going on 3 bd Personally I don’t use protection 🤷🏽‍♀️ I don’t like to and that’s okay I deal with the consequences I don’t be mad if I have a dead beat shit like you said we barely knew each other I can’t be mad I roll with the punches my kids ain’t missing nothing I have a huge family I wanted a lot of kids growing up 1st i was being young & dumb got prego had a miscarrage then tried again and had my 1st - deadbeat 2nd i wad in a relationship i cheated and accidentally got prego by who i cheated with 3rd i actually aborted and felt like shit about it so ill never do it again 4th moving fast again like the 1st bd but ive been in a real relationship this time we tried and i was fertile from my abortion were still together hes a great guy i like to fuckkkk and i provide for mine

I’m on my 3rd baby daddy and my first we where teens together for 6 years and just grew apart we coparent great I get along with his wife and it’s like everyone’s coparenting dream but my second baby daddy was a crazy narcissist I was with him 2 almost 3 years girl I ran from that relationship but after my second I was alone for awhile I went to therapy and all that I have a career and i honestly bring in the money in both last relationships I got the houses the cars everything but when I met my husband omg God literally sent this man we been together going on two years and he never yells at me never called me out my name he provides and I’m literally in my Soft girl area uhhhhhh im super blessed and to add my husband is a cancer survivor sooo we where and still are surprised we are having a baby coming this November I got to experience the most perfect pregnancy and I thank God I get to experience such a beautiful love in this lifetime I pray for all the woman struggling 😇🥰

Honestly who cares? i have two bds yes the first one isn’t any good we were young but the second one is honestly the best that ever happened

Fr. I wouldn’t give this man a second child, much less have another child with someone else. I learned my lesson, I knew this man for 4 years before we decided to have a kid, and he isn’t who I thought he was. He’s responsible when it comes to bills, but I have to ask like 10 x to buy the baby essential clothes. Thankfully I’m gonna start working soon again 💕

Maybe she was is just genuinely curious? The wording could have been a bit better but it’s not that deep lol I have one bd and I’d and it’s hard dealing with one but two?! How do you do it?! I could be wrong and maybe she was being funny about it but idk until she responds🤷🏾‍♀️

@Coco idk i don’t see anything funny about it. if she didn’t mean no harm she could’ve word it differently

@Brooklyn bitchhhhhhh first of allll you make some cute ass kids!!!!!!!!

@SaKaiya right, I feel you, and when I say funny I don’t mean “haha comical” like a mean funny..

@Tia right they so cute 🥰

@Coco ohh okay i get it now lol

@Tia thank you 💕💕

@SaKaiya thank you 💕💕

@Brooklyn but it breaks my heart that “dealing with the consequences” is a babies life at stake. I understand that you have a big family and you have the means but it almost is like there’s no real genuine care.

@Amber honestly I’m happy you got your happy ever after girl I see your circumstances sometimes it feel like there’s no light at the end of the tunnel!

@SaKaiya no one has to care each to their own!

@Nelly yh like for me I also have one and want a second but if it’s not with my first BD I wouldn’t do it with someone else and be a single mum to multiple different men kids

@Coco yh I didn’t know how best to word it I be honest 😂 but honestly BD drama is sooo real so I’m just genuinely confused why as women who can protect themselves and their kids keep going back and making more BDs then blaming the said BDs like come on.

Unprotected sex… deal with the consequences? I feel like ppl forget what the consequences are 😭 a pregnancy can be terminated. HIV can’t, all other sexually transmitted diseases can’t and sexually transmitted infections are also terrible.

girl you made a post you obviously care

@Nelly I mean… 😂😂 I don’t see how all that is fun

@SaKaiya you commenting so do you care ? Lol get the fuck out about I care I don’t live my life like that so why would I care. this is just a light hearted conversation

good for you, you don’t live like that. but maybe other females do? what’s wrong with that

I don’t care honestly I handle my own and again my kids never go without if I could have gotten myself prego without a man I would have 😂

@Nelly that’s why you ask you see papers ? Tf lmao

@Brooklyn right… cause you do 😅 and the dudes show them to you and they’re only having sex with you and not messing with other people randomly. A person Can be ok today but tomorrow morning they will fck someone who’s actually sick. But hey, is your health and your life, not mine. Your consequences will not affect me. People should ask for papers and still protect themselves. Continue doing you love, don’t mind me. ✌️

@Nelly oops I do ask for papers😮 just cause I have multiple bd and I fk raw doesn’t mean I’m fking everybody and a person soon as I meet them 😆😆😆

Lol I fuck raw is crazzzzy😭😭

Crazy good 😂😂😂😂 you feel everythingggg🤤🤤🤤 I don’t put them chemicals up my coochie 🫢

If you using condones just don’t even have sex that’s how I feel 😂😂 if you not married theirs no point Bol

Riiiiight….but letting people run up in you raw throwing your ph off is so much better…ion know playing Russian roulette with stds ain’t my get down but more power to you babe

@SaKaiya it is good for me and whatever is good for others is good for them too..:)