Baby Mama Drama

I understand, I am a big Overthinker too. if she looks at your life and try to find every little flaw just to have something to say negatively then clearly she does not have your best interest. It’s easier said than done but you have to find some way to not give a fuck about what she thinks. Even if you think is directed towards you if it’s not said to you directly then it’s not respected & I try to remind myself that everyone is entitled to their own opinion and what they think of me is not my business to help my thoughts

Why do you have her social media?

@🌻Dej🌻 Thank you. My husband always said just don't talk a bunch and ignore anything not about ss because everything is a fight to her. I wish I listened😅 I'll ask an innocent question and she turns it so fast. I just want what's best for little man. I wish stuff like this didn't eat away at me. My post was also just my husband being a good dad😭 He used to never do what he does now, so I was bragging because I'm proud of him

@Sydney She asked in person to be friends on social media and we like to see what little man gets to do so we can be excited with him. I'm also scared to unfollow because then it'll become a *thing*

aw man that is tough! I wanted to friend my sons mom on insta so i could see pics of him but I know i couldn’t handle the stress. Trying to hold boundaries between being coparents and being friends is tricky. Honestly maybe her shit posting is about you. but that doesn’t make it true. you know what you’re here for and her opinion is irrelevant, try not to buy in to the games it’s really not worth it. If it’s weighing on you don’t be afraid to block her socials 🤷 sounds like she’s going to fight about it either way.

@Sydney I muted some of her stuff so I can see the good stuff still. I know we aren't perfect and still struggle as parents, it's just so hard when you have a ticking bomb waiting for you to mess up😭 I know I chose my husband and I knew it would be hard, but sometimes it's just TOUGH. My ss lies about us for attention so we just look awfull to her

i know the feeling, they totally play it up for sympathy from bio mom and it sucks to look like the bad guy. end of the day all you can do is focus on being a good parent n doing what’s right for your son regardless of what other people say. if custody/visitation is still being worked out i strongly suggest removing her from ur socials. there’s a great app called FamilyAlbum where you can all upload pics of the littles without being up in each others personal lives :) there’s probably allot of ill will between exes that has nothing to do with you.

I don’t follow on social media for this reason

@Sydney custody was figured out a few years ago. She thinks he cheated on her, but he didn't, so unfortunately, there will always be some anger and resentment. Thank you though. I might look into the app as well

Ooo girl I completely understand what you’re going through. My fiances BM is bitter as idk what and has a whole man! But now that we have a son together with another on the way she has been nothing but difficult and has even called his friends complaining! Literally because she’s jealous. My son and her daughter were both born in September. My son’s birthday is on the 12th and hers is on the 21st. So why after both my fiance and I posted our son on HIS day, did she post their daughter talking about she just got her birthday nails done when it was a little over a week away! And then she refused to even tell his older siblings that it was his birthday and LIED to them when they asked! Smh it drives me insane and fiance can’t stand what she does either. We’re both sick of her.

@Amber SHE'S ABOUT TO HAVE A BABY WITH HER MAN!!! why do they STAY bitter and jealous like bd is their property

Giiiirrrrllllll that just threw me because yes that’s giving obsessed and possessive. I can’t stand women that have a child with someone’s it doesn’t work out, and then they get mad when they move on with someone else and are happy. In my case it’s like she has a serious issue with us growing our family but when I met him I only had one child from someone else. We’ve been together more than 6 years now and I think that’s a main reason why she’s so mad and does nothing but complain. And she tries to compete with my social media posts. It’s honestly pretty damn sad.