i wouldn’t have just let it go. it sounds like you know she wouldn’t have taken accountability for how she treated you and made you feel, so for me i feel better letting it out and that way she knows how you feel regardless is she agrees with you. my baby was also in the nicu for a little over 2.5 months so i completely understand the stress of that alone, and first coming home with medications, etc. you are so strong and brave and i’m sorry people close to you were not loving and supportive through and through ❤️
It’s not your fault. She wanted to change the narrative. And wtf is wrong with her casually bring up cancer… almost as if she was wishing it upon you. I rebuke it in the name of Jesus!
@Aurélie Youre exactly right, zero accountability just deny deny and blame others. I can’t wait to put a healthy distance 🤞
@devyn Thank you so much ❤️ honestly after I said something I did feel like a weight was lifted even though she deny everything
@Nelly LOL I know so random, she probably does!! She thinks she’s all wise and knowing so I think she was looking for a way to shed wisdom on me…. And landed on cancer 😆
I m very sorry this happened to you and I m happy you have a healthy baby now. Those older generation comes with a poor emotional maturity. Sometimes I also wish they could take accountability for their actions and bad words but I realized lately that this is not gonna happen. For my own sake I put a healthy distance and change my expectations. Living there don't really allow that for you. Whenever you can, I would just nove out and have the healthy distance you need with her.