Ladies

My son is about to be 4 in a couple months and I just started feeling a little bit like myself. I think everyone's different. Are you a single mom or have a partner? I'm a single mom and I feel as though my identity has gotten lost with being a mother.

I’m a single mom and I think that has something to do with/ the time it takes my baby boy is 3 as well… I don’t think as moms we’ll ever fully feel like our old selves before the babies bc we’re simply not but I’m definitely just getting to a place of caring about myself again and working on myself and getting things in life in order in general and I feel like I’m a better mom now, definitely happier it’s hard some days, honestly everyday lol but pray and push through honey !! ❤️🙏🏿

@Samm single mom but dad is active so I do get breaks but definitely still feel so drained

@Ebony thank you,yes I agree.I just started getting me together as well.Still feel like im learning me again

My son will be 3 next week and I still don't feel like myself. Whatever that means, right? I'm just always going through different moods and emotions and it wears me out. I'm also working on my self-care and trying to find peace. It's a process!

Love this post so much! Thank you ladies so much for putting in your two cents, putting everything out there and being honest. I’m so glad I’m not the only one that feels this way. I’m also a single mom who has a child with an involved father. This helps me feel like I am not all alone in that I am still trying to get it together and get somewhat back to my old self, or have some sense of identity aside from being a mom. My child is also soon to be three. ♥️

@Lisa it is a process!We have to hang in there momma!

@Jessica yes it is hard dealing with the emotions alone.I feel so drained and defeated some days but we got this!