So I'm wondering if I'm just overthinking this

Do you trust him? If my partner didn't reply while he was at work I'd just think that he's busy

I would just assume he’s busy since he’s at work.

If my partner doesn’t reply I’m aware he is busy at work and will when he can. I think as long as you trust your partner I wouldn’t worry.

@Becky I trust him to a point but only cuase he works late on the days he works mornings

Have you got reason not to trust him?

@Becky other then him not coming home on time , no

Him not coming home on time is not a sign of cheating. My partner often comes home later than I'd expect him to, but this is usually because he got out of work late, got chatting to his colleagues after work or went to the shop after work lol.

I don’t think this is anything to worry about lovely xx but I know it’s hard not to I used to get like this with my hubby as well. And if he doesn’t come home when I expect I get worried but he’s usually at the DIY 😂

@Rebecca his been ignoring me since he got home and since I been up

@Kathryn he been ignoring me and replying to other people's texts/snaps but not mine and not opening mine from hours ago , now I think something going on due to that

@Asha I asked him if everything okay , he said nothing wrong n if I keep trying to find out what's going on he'll get mad and claim nothing going on to be worried about

Maybe I'm toxic but me and my partner have life 360🤣 if he doesn't respond to a question or something I pull it up and see his little icon walking around or driving and it gets me out of my head. I'm a stay at home mom so I have a lot of time to just sit and think and make something out of nothing sometimes. And no you guys I'm not a stalker🫠 it is helpful with like driving reports to see who's speeding or like if one of us lost our phone somewhere. Maybe he'd be open to doing something like that.

@Victoria he won't get it but maybe I can convince him after our son born ? I'm not sure on that but I do feel the same me an a ex had it it never bugged me but I ended up forgetting to turn my location on after turning it off cuase pokemon go was being buggy n I would turn off and on but he always knew where to find me n that was curled up in bed sleeping or with him cuase I didn't have a car then and he knew I did it for the game cuase he saw me doing it and told him why but I ended up forgetting some times to turn bk on if I gave up on pokemon

So the #1 q Is do u trust him? And morning an night shift could be busier depending on what he do depending on job he do his boss could be in therefor no phones can be seen an also depending on if the important people r coming in such as state or higher up could be also trying to look more busy just depending on job Also if he not coming home on time could be also depending if his job kept him late if he needs to get gas, but honestly if u r worried ask him to show u his pay stub they should show time coming an clock out or see if his checks match if he still coming home late he should tell u even if it is to get a drink from bar or hanging out with his boys. But I do know being Prego does change perspectives Alot I hope it does change when they baby arrives

@Katie he always texts me no matter how busy even if late but he never replied just opened my message from 11/12 and told me he got home about 2 I was up at 2 n he wasn't home then

Overthinking it. He’s at work

Why don't you just follow up with an "hello? Everything ok?" And then put it out of your mind. Yes, you are overthinking it. He clearly just got busy and forgot to reply